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For Young Boys, Is Pink the New Blue?

Jupiterimages/Photos[dot]Com(NEW YORK) -- For generations the view has held strong that while girls must dress in pink to be girls, boys can't do anything with pink, lest they turn into girls.

It's the view that's determined the color scheme in many a kid's bedroom, clothes and toy closets, and that has held strong through decades of change.

But, in today's 21st century world, is that view changing?

"It's a big deal to see boys dressed in pink because, simply, it's not the cultural convention," gender expert, and author of the book Pink Brain, Blue Brain, Dr. Lise Eliot, told ABC News. "But it's nothing hard-wired. Boys are not innately aversive to pink and girls and are not innately attracted to pink."

Boys may not be 'innately averse' to pink but what about their fathers, the generation of men who grew up in a not-so-open society, one in which blue was, without question, for boys. Is pink also "in" among these dads, fathers like Jobson-Larkin whose young son already clearly prefers pink?

ABC News gathered a panel of fathers with sons to see where the men raising this new generation of gender-neutral kids fell in the gender color war. The dad's sons had varying interests and preferences.

"My son is into trucks and yellow is his favorite color," one dad said.

"My son loves golf," said another.

"My son likes Tae Kwon Do," said a third. "He also loves everything pink and purple.”

For the dads who saw their sons bending the gender color lines, what was their true, gut reaction that first time their little one chose pink over blue?

"I verbally said, 'Is that the color you really want? Look at...there's some other colors,'" Gregory Jobson-Larkin recalled. "I really didn't know to handle it when it first happened."

"I really wanted him to choose a different color," he told the panel. "It was really a reflection of me to be honest, of my own struggle."

And what if, in a perfect world, the dads could choose whether their son grabs a pink shirt or a blue one?

"Pink shirt," one father replied immediately. "I'd want him to go to the one he was drawn to."

Even the fathers who firmly wanted their sons dressed in blue acknowledged that, in the end, it should be their son's decision to make.

"I'd prefer my child to choose blue," said one dad. "But if he wants to choose the pink shirt over the blue shirt, it's up to him."

"I follow my child's lead," another agreed. "So it's not really the point of what I like. It's the point of what my child likes."

Dr. Eliot says fathers like those on the ABC News panel opening up to non-gender based color choices is having an impact on this generation of children.

"We actually created the color scheme that we now define as gender based," Eliot said. “Kids learn that one color is ‘bad’ for them from adults."

ABC News went straight to the source, a group of 6 to 8-year-old boys, to see if they too worried about acceptance and teasing among their peers not-in-pink.

"I don't really believe in the 'girl colors boy colors' thing," said one boy in the group.

"I like pink. I also think the 'boy color, girl colors' is not fair," another agreed.

When the boys were asked to pick a shirt and try it on, two boys chose pink, and even made a point to bond over it, giving each other fist pumps in the air over their selection.

"I would never be worried about wearing pink to school," one said.

Despite their enthusiasm for pink, however, the boys showed that, just like their dads, there is still a limit in today's culture of how far "boys in pink" can go.

"I just wouldn't want to cross the line with a princess on the shirt," one boy said when asked about wearing a pink shirt featuring a princess on it to school.

"They would probably laugh at me and I would kind of be a little humiliated if that happened," he said of his classmates' reaction. "I just wouldn't want to go there with it."

Copyright 2011 ABC News Radio


Study Claims Scouts Reinforce Gender Stereotypes

Brand X Pictures/Thinkstock(COLLEGE PARK, Md.) -- The Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts remain out-of-step with modern times, perpetuating gender stereotypes about femininity and masculinity in their manuals, according to a new study.

Kathleen Denny, a sociology graduate student at the University of Maryland, College Park, points out that the Girl Scouts manual talks about badges that back up her theory, including Caring for Children, Looking Your Best and Sew Simple.

For instance, the section under "Looking Your Best" tells girls "take turns holding different colors up to your face (to) decide which colors look best on each of you."  Meanwhile, an accessory party advises girls to figure out "how accessories highlight your features and your outfit."

The closest the Boy Scouts get to that is a Fitness badge, Denny says, which encourages boys to write down what they eat for a week and explains the dangers of drugs and alcohol to a family member.

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